In Social Media, Perception Is Reality
By: Trish Forant
When it comes to social media, perception is reality. It’s a “what you see is what you get” kind of environment, so you want to make sure that you’re always representing yourself in the best possible light. Think of your time online as building your personal resume – a resume of information that gives people insight to who you are, at a glance. Sometimes a glance is all it takes for someone to form a first impression. What impression do you think people are walking away with when they check out your profiles?
Who’s The Boss
Whether we like it or not, potential employers are checking us out online. In December 2009, research commissioned by Microsoft found that 79% of U.S. hiring managers and job recruiters reviewed online information about potential job candidates. Additionally, they found that 70% of U.S. hiring managers had rejected candidates based on what they found online about that person.
You’ve known this was important and you’re probably pretty careful across most of your social networks to customize your privacy settings. But come on, with the speed at which social networks like Facebook and Twitter update in real-time you’ve probably thought at least once that it can’t be that big a deal if you let a rogue tweet or status update fly right? Maybe it wasn’t before but you might want to think again, now that the FTC has given a company called Social Intelligence the o.k. to run background checks of your Internet and social media history. Social Intelligence can go as far back as seven years into your Internet history. Were you as Internet savvy 7 years ago as you are today?
Speaking of Privacy Settings
Your privacy settings should be customized based on how and why you use each social network. If you’re interested in sharing photos with family members on Flickr, then you’ll want to make sure your settings match that criteria. If you’re interested in becoming an authority on glass etching then perhaps it would be best to keep your Twitter and Facebook accounts open and searchable – or even consider creating a Facebook page rather than using your personal profile.
Google+ is a great example of a social network with customizable sections. If you weren’t already aware, you customize your privacy comfort levels for almost every section of Google+. There are some exceptions but for the most part, it’s pretty flexible.
Say What?
Recruiters and job seekers aside, it is still important to be aware of what you are sharing across your social networks and how it may be perceived. Sarcasm doesn’t always translate well in text and can easily be misconstrued. Plus, in the text based world of social networks, tone can be hard to interpret so a good rule of thumb is to proofread before you hit send or share. If there’s anything that could potentially be misunderstood, it’s safe to assume it will be! Err on the side of caution and keep your updates as conservative as possible – all of this is, of course, assuming your brand doesn’t call for otherwise.
Meetups, tweetups and all sorts of assorted social media gatherings are becoming increasingly popular. You can bet that the people you’re meeting at these events are going to take the time to check you out across social networks if they’re interested in remaining in touch with you. Though it isn’t fair, once they’ve pulled up your social profiles you may be judged based on the groups you belong to, the comments you’ve made, the jokes you’ve shared and the photos you’ve chosen to display. Assumptions may even be made about your username and or avatar. With that in mind, does the online representation of you match the offline version you share?
Google This
Chances are, sooner or later, you’re going to be Googled. The good news is, the majority of people do not click past page 3 of a Google search result. The bad news is, the majority of people don’t click past page 3 of a Google search result. That means you’re going to want to treat your user-names and name like your brand and be vigilant in monitoring them. Sign up for Google alerts and receive email updates when your name appears on the Internet.
You might even want to sign up for Internet Shame Insurance, a very simple Google Chrome extension that adds privacy reminders to Facebook, Twitter, and Gmail to help you avoid the most common online communication faux pas.
Shape Up
When it comes right down to it, people (for the most part) believe what they see and that perception becomes their reality. It may not be fair to be judged on such limited information but it certainly does happen. However, you have the ability to shape that perception by controlling what you share, how you share it and removing what you can that doesn’t represent you well.
Now it’s your turn! What do you think? Do you agree that we’re often judged based on what people see on our social profiles? Or do you have a different point of view? Do you keep your information locked down or share without much care or concern? Let us know in the comments below.



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